My friends happen to ignore my messages when i have needed help or let me down. Even something as silly as picking my daughter up when she goes to same school as theirs when i was in hospital having treatment. Not one of my friends turned up to my wedding party and my in laws never either. Teah still loves horses there is a hold on it because of money but once we are moved and settled there wil be riding lessons for her and maybe one or two for me.